This post is for anyone who wants to know how to write love scenes.
In my post, How to Write Romance, I mentioned there are two ways to go about writing a romantic scene. The first route is
soft and sweet. The second is hot and steamy. So, I am going to go more
in-depth on these two tactics and try to stay as PG-13 as I can.
Here are TEN TIPS for each!
FYI: I had adult romance stories in mind when I was writing this post. You may have to
alter these tips down a notch or two depending on the ages of your characters.
Soft-N-Sweet:
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Why is the encounter soft-n-sweet? Couples
don’t just make soft, sweet love for the heck of it. Mostly there are emotions
behind it. Love, of course, being the most obvious. But other emotions can come
into play such as gratefulness, sympathy, hope, and even nervousness if it’s your
MC’s first time.
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Let your readers in on your main character’s
thoughts and feelings. Maybe this is the moment when your MC realizes he/she is
falling in love. Even if he/she isn’t ready to say those three words, he/she
can show how they feel by savoring this moment with his/her lover.
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Describe your character’s kisses. The kisses should
linger and spin into oblivion. Consume and fulfill. Be so descriptive that your
readers will wish they are the one being kissed.
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Have them peel away each other's clothes slowly as
if they are unwrapping presents and want to savor the surprise.
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Then let them taste and touch each other’s
bodies leisurely as if there’s no rush, only temptation to fill cravings.
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Their mouths and hands should move all over
their bodies. From head to toe. You can keep the details subtle or you can be
very specific. If you go the latter then you should also:
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Reveal the pleasure they experience from
being kissed and touched in a certain way. And yes, let them sigh, moan, and
cry.
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Let them mumble sweet nothings. Some people
may gag at this but the things characters say during this moment can really
make a sweet love scene even more romantic.
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Finally, let them join, but with a
soft-n-sweet encounter you will want to either end it here or follow through
all the way, which leads to my last tip:
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Make sure the coupling stays soft-n-sweet;
that their movements are slow as they build up to the climax. Then have them
reach the other side with an explosion that leaves them quivering.
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Hot-N-Steamy:
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Just like with the soft-n-sweet option,
couples don’t all of a sudden attack each other like wild animals. Maybe they
are fighting and when the gloves finally come off they take out their
frustrations on each other sexually. Or maybe they have had encounters that always ended after an explosive kiss or a brief touch. You will
need to build up the tension until they are finally alone and can rip each
other’s clothes off.
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The moment their mouths make contact should
show eagerness and maybe even harshness. Let their demands be shown through
their kiss.
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Describe the flashes of heat they feel, how
their stomachs clench, and their bodies throb with desire.
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Use special words to show how hot-n-steamy
their encounter is such as: erotically, vibrating, desperately, seductive, and
sexily.
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Have them push each other into the wall to nibble,
taste, kiss, and touch. Heck, you can even let them run into furniture and
knock things over in their mad rush to reach the bed.
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Let them lose control before they reach the
bed! Hot-n-Steamy love scenes can be literally anywhere: floor, coffee table,
staircase, broom closet. Like I said, anywhere.
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They can either tear off all of their clothes
in a frenzy to be skin-to-skin or . . . *Warning:
about to get a little more detailed here.* The guy can just unzip his pants and
if the woman is wearing a skirt then the only thing that needs to go are her
panties.
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Make the couple vocal with moans and even
demands of what they want. This is your chance to add some erotic foreplay.
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When they are one, don’t lose the intensity,
magnify it! Make their movements fast and furious all the way to climax! And
then . . .
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Make them come with a bang!
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Eep! This is definitely my most sensual blog post, so I hope you blushed while reading it as much I am blushing knowing you are reading it. lol
QUESTION: What type of love scene is your favorite to read or write? Sweet-n-Soft or Hot-n-Steamy?
SHARE: Your tips for writing a soft-n-sweet and/or hot-n-steamy love scene.
